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It’s coming up to four weeks since I decided to ditch the Facebook thing, for good. The idea of living aspects of social psychology in virtual space doesn’t really appeal to me. So I don’t have any plans to return to it.
Some interesting things.
- No one remembered my birthday because I had no facebook. Except for three people who don’t even live in Brisbane. Not including family. ;o
- Some people thought I deleted them, and were visibly disturbed when they questioned me in person. (sad)
- My idle time (which was facebook time) is now replaced with more productive and meaningful things. Like work.
- I am now socially dead to a lot of people, even though they have my number and email. If you really want to not abuse the social convenience of Facebook to stalk my life, then you can call or email anytime.
But don’t go out of your way, really.
Although it could be a good tool to shape your whole ‘image’ to a social mass, in the end it’s better to do this in person. It was fun to explore at the start, and to watch it grow, however I believe it can also be a mass social conditioning tool which will threaten the privacy and individuality of the future, for a lot of people.
The tricky thing is how to incorporate the business aspect of my life into Facebook, when I refuse to make an account. A twitter is fine too. ;o
Over the past yearish, I’ve put a bit of energy into establishing business ventures with my computer skillz. So far so good! I think it’s going to turn into a full time thing, and I’ll look after myself with this.
Although a website to web-ify it all is in the works, the domain is over at http://dreamfast.com.au/ Websites, software, etc
Only last week I made the change to separate all the business / personal stuff. OS X Lion makes that a lot easier, with superior fast user switching! </sellout> Which does help a lot. I recommend this to anyone starting a similar thing.
Expect more paranoia and security related posts of this nature! Soon I’ll make everything sapwell.net SSL, and post some nice things on how to be safe in case they are watching your internet traffic.
But point is, no more Facebook. It’s stupid. I hope more people follow along.
Remember there is always the safe and easy way!
Well, worst case is I’ll make one, but just have it as a portal to other things I am doing on the web. Since people still seem to like to use it for some reason.